Congratulations Godess laxmi is born, congratulations Godess durga is born,
Congratulations girl is born you are blessed.
This is how we feel and say when a girl is born .. Am I right??
Then how does these wordings changes to:
What are you wearing?!? Where are you going so late come home before the sun sets! Wear something hideous so that none of your skin is visible it will keep you save from something bad.....
She deserve it look at the clothes she wore! So scandalous! She invited this to happen! Why did she work so late? She was fooling around after sunset it's her own fault!! Boys are just growing they should understand this...
See she is the rape victim... Looks of sympathy follows......... Few make sympathetic comments, few looks, few makes video to WHO comes forward to help them?? NO ONE! Yes the ugly truth! Feeling disheartened? You should be... ..
Rape is often explained or excused as a manifestation of racial, ethnic, and class hatred or as stemming from a patriarchal system in which women are viewed as the property of men. Whatever its origins, rape is a serious crime and is treated as a felony in most countries with common-law systems. In many rape trials, the guilt or innocence of the accused hinges on whether or not the victim consented to sexual intercourse.
The psychological reactions of victims of rape also vary but usually include feelings of shame, humiliation, confusion, fear, and rage. Victims often report a feeling of perpetual defilement, an inability to feel clean, an overwhelming sense of vulnerability, and a paralyzing feeling of lack of control over their lives. Many are haunted by fear of the place in which the crime occurred, or of being followed, or of all sexual relationships. Others experience long-term disruption of sleep or eating patterns or an inability to function at work. The duration of the psychological trauma varies from individual to individual; many feel the effects for years, even with considerable supportive therapy. In view of the great psychological harm it causes, many psychologists regard rape as a form of torture—a permanent mutilation of an individual’s life. In addition to these psychological effects, in some societies victims of rape face the danger of ostracism or even death at the hands of relatives seeking to preserve their family’s honour (victims of abduction without rape may be treated in the same way).
Statutory rape
The age at which an individual may give effective consent to sexual intercourse is commonly set in most countries at between 14 and 18 years (though it is as low as 12 years in some countries). Sexual intercourse with a person below the age of consent is termed statutory rape, and consent is no longer relevant. The term statutory rape specifically refers to the legal proscription against having sexual intercourse with a child or any other person presumed to lack comprehension of the physical and other consequences of the act. The term statutory rape may also refer to any kind of sexual assault committed against a person above the age of consent by an individual in a position of authority (e.g., employers, teachers, clergy, doctors, and parents). Statutory rape often leaves the victim with long-term psychological and physical damage, including sexually transmitted diseases and the inability to bear children.
For example, statutory rape was particularly prevalent in South Africa in the period following the abolition of apartheid,when it was estimated that some two-fifths of South African rape victims were under age 18. Many rapes in the country were committed in the mistaken belief that sexual intercourse with a virgin (including an infant) would cure the rapist of HIV/AIDS. According to interpole,in the early 21st century there were more rapes per capita in South Africa than in any other country.
The Odisha rape victim was just 3-year-old, Banda victim was 8-year-old, Hathras victim was just 19, Bulandshahr girl who was raped and then set on fire was also 12-year-old.
Last time, something like this shook people's conscience was in 2012 when Nirbhaya was brutally gang-raped in a moving bus in Delhi. The sad part is nothing has changed, even after so many promises were made at that time..
What is more shocking is the fact that, in most of the cases, it has turned out that these minor girls are sexually abused and molested by someone they already know or someone, who is known to their families.
According to a report by child rights NGO CRY, the sexual offence is committed against a child in India every 15 minutes and there has been an increase of more than 500 per cent over the past 10 years in crime against minors.
We all know the recent Hathras gang-rape and murder. The incident took place on September 14, 2020, when a 19-year-old woman was allegedly gang-raped and brutally assaulted by four upper-caste men while her family members were busy working on the fields. The family claimed that four to five people attacked her from behind, gagged her with her dupatta and dragged her to a bajra field where they gang-raped her.
I can go on an on......
Question here Comes WHY!
We look at them with sympathy we ask them these things again and again and keeps on refreshing their wounds and make them bleed until they want to give upon their lives and burr themselves deep inside earth and want it consume them...
OH COME ON YOU DEMONS THEY'RE NOT THE CULPRIT THEY ARE VICTIMS!!!???!!! THEY ARE TRAUMATIZED AND WHAT DO YOU DO??? MAKE THEM REMEMBER THESE NIGTMARES AGAIN AND AGAIN!! WORST IS WHEN YOU TRY TO SAVE THE CULPRITS BY MAKING LAME EXCUSES!! WOW!! HEADS OFF !!!
You should understand that they are trying to start a new life and forgot about those nightmare they go through all nights which keeps on haunting them like the dark Shadows.. They are the real fighters as they fight these people, nightmare, taunts, stares, whispers, and what not? I just have one request from all of you show them empathy which they want they don't need your sympathy they need support, they want to forget the memories help them support them to come out of these trauma... We just have to be patient....
Yours sincerely,
Vidhi
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